I can't believe it has been 4 months since I was here

I am so sorry! My life has been crazy lately, I just returned to work. After 14 1/2 months off I wasn't sure I was ready. 10 days after returning to work my Mother was discharge from the long term unit that she has been on for 11 months. Discharged to me. I love my mother and always told her when she was ready to come home she could. I have had to learn more than this prison guard ever wanted to know about nursing. But it is a joy to serve someone who has always been selfless. A challenge for me physically I had back surgery in February, and have been told by my doctor that physically I cannot do this without putting myself in jeopardy of having to have more back surgery. I need prayer...because I refuse to send my Mother to a nursing home. This is my time to give to the woman who gave me life and I will not turn my back on her. My daughter has been wonderful without her I would not be able to do this. She given up so much of day every day to help us both! Periodically when we are truly exhausted we vent to one another cry and then suck it up and carry on. I will try to post photos soon! In the meantime peace my sisters in locs.

My daughter is an adult now!

I have tried to deny my daughters' desire to be an adult. After all I remenber every moment of her life from the first time I knew she existed..to the first time I felt her move. I love her with all my heart! She was the first grand child and has been greatly indulged by everyone in her life. Autumn is her name, it is describes so well if you are from a part of the country that enjoys a real autumn. Now my daughter will marry her best friend and love Jenny. As a mother I wish my daughters' happiness and love for the rest of their lives! To the world who may feel as though they have a right to judge and condemn..I wish you love as well. I am proud of my daughters and the wonderful group of people that are their friends. so today I introduce Autumn and Jenny.

Gerald Albright.......I love Jazz

Here are some pictures of me and my daughter from Geralds' concert this past week. The hair color is one that she picked out for me and I believe I have past 13 months Sisterlocked! yeah!

Gus Macker 3 on 3 Basketball Tournament

Just wanted to share some photos of my daughter. She is a basketball player and her team won this years Gus Macker in her division. As you can see she is natural.

Just a little high lights

Well I just got the first of my color tell me what you think. My loctician highlighted using foil. I will have to post again soon because my daughter decided to lighten my hair she didn't like the plan highlights.

My first hair cut

Well I am finally all natural, gone once and for all are the permed limp ends! I can see my locs completely for the first time and I love it. The permed hair was beginning to look a hot mess, they were bunching up. At first the bunching didn't bother me but I decided to wash my hair before the retightening and not roll it just let it go. It wasn't cute and to tell you the truth the perm was actually blocking my view of what my hair really looks like. My consultant said it is past time for a hair cut, I said lets do it. She hesitated and said you know your hair is going to be very short, and I will not cut it into a style. This will just remove your permed hair, I told her I understand and I am ready to do it. I love my hair..yes it is short but it looks neat and guess what there are locs. They are soft and healthy it feels wonderful to be here!

A fresh retightening

It feels so good when you get your locks retightened. This is my 10th month with sister locks and the only regret I have is that I didn't do this sooner. I am ready for the permed ends to be cut, my consultant wants to make sure that my hair won't unravel from the bottom. My hair is thicker than it has ever been. Prior to this retightening I rolled my locks on soft spikes and used the crinkles and curls styling lotion from Taaliah Waajid. My consultant pulled the curls while she retightened and made it cute! I have to say my retightenings only take an hour. It took her approximately 5 hours when she installed them, it is amazing how fast she move. I am going to try and add some photos so you can see the progress.

Change gon' come

I began trying to get my hair locked in 2005, I had a consultation with a young lady who advised me that my hair would be difficult to lock. She wanted me to allow my hair to grow out of the perm until I had about 5 inches of new growth, and then she would attempt to lock me starting them with 2 strand twists. She referred me to another woman in the shop who specialized in braids. She wanted me to wear my hair in braids and then that lady would tell her when I was ready to begin locking. The lady that was suppose to braid my hair could'nt get me in for 6 weeks. The day before that appointment she called to tell me that shop was going to be closed that day and it would be another six weeks before she could get me in. I had to do something with my hair in the meantime so I can someone else corn roll it. On day 10 it felt as though my scalp was sliding of my head, I had big red lines on my forehead from the tension. I immediately took them out and my hair came out with it. Back to the creamy crack I went. It was about 5 months later I saw a young lady that I worked with and admired her hair she told me about sister locks. Well I asked her for consultants name and telephone a dozen times and she would not give it to me. I finally decided to look on line and see what information I could find. I found the only certified consultant at the time and may an appointment for a consultation, when I arrived she was re-tightening a young lady who had been locked for 3 years. I was impressed by how healthy her hair was. I was excited! Initially my consultant thought it would take a long time for my hair to lock, she prepared me for a straight look. My hair began locking within a month, creating it's own at the nape of my neck. The process has made me more aware of who I am and where I want to go. I have tried to rid myself of artificial ingredients in all aspects of my life, from food to lotions and creams and especially hair. I have tried to share information with all my creamy crackhead friends and family. Some are receptive and others aren't. I enjoy being natural and rediscovering what my hair is like, and it is strong, healthy, resilient, thick with a lot of body.